Do I Communicate Differently?

When talking to people who are non-black, of different religions and sexual orientation I do find I communicate differently. I am more so mindful of what I say and/or even do around those who are different from me. With all the racial tension going on the world my view of Caucasians has changed, not in a way where I feel all caucasians are racist but I do not want anyone to think I am comfortable enough to be around to make racial jokes, remarks, etc. My body language has changed, I am not as open to discuss things with my white friends as I once was months ago. With people of different religions I speak to them in a way where it is more so of an intuitive conversation. I want to know how they may have gotten into their religions, the differences and similarities, and so on.  The last course I took I realized I had some strong feelings towards the LGBT community as far as just not agreeing with the lifestyle. When I am with someone of that community I am closed off, conversation is limited and I just don't know how to communicate with them. This is something I have been struggling with for a while.


However, this week I have learned some essential tools with how to communicate those different from myself. The Platinum Rule has presented a way to treat others as they themselves would like to be treated and this will be helpful in my many interactions. It helps dispel any bias, judging and any personal feelings, just old fashion respect. Body language is another action that I should be aware for myself and others when communicating. Lastly, I would begin to learn about those who are different culture, background etc.,  and ask question, so that we won't have that awkward silence between us.